To Market my EFT Course, I Want to Walk the Talk Daily

Back in London, Marketing My EFT Course Reminds Me of How I Marketed it Abroad – Only with 100 Percent Authenticity

Whilst living abroad for some 8 years, I marketed my EFT courses by being my own authentic self. And now I need to get two more attendees to complete the forthcoming EFT Course in London-Kent, and I need to go back to being my authentic self.

However, this is something that I have hidden from the public for two years. This is whilst I struggled with the results of a series of events which led to me coming back to my  UK homeland homeless and almost penniless, having to start all over again, due to crazy changes in my spouse’s country’s visa rules. My time, money, and efforts were spent on clearing my name as an accused illegal immigrant in my spouse’s country (successfully completed), getting my spouse a visa to the UK (very long hours – up to 5 hours after each full day’s work, and very costly), and bringing my cat back home to England (very costly and stressful each step along the way). And I was technically homeless for 7 months, as this was not a planned return. I kept up hope and tapped and tapped, but in the end, my living conditions were just too much and that is when I could no longer put out regular videos on Youtube, because the subject-matter was too triggering for most people and not a good introduction to EFT.

The other day, my spouse reported to me yet again that I was displaying a particular sign of distress in my sleep. It is too personal to discuss, as it involves third parties, so let us call it X. I have decided to start walking the talk again and tapping on my own stuff in public, to show people how EFT works. This tapping is extra special, because you can use it yourself, as the words cover any situation. I am going to call the particular sign of distress “X”, in order to keep it private. If you have an exact event or reaction that you want to tap for, you can call it “X” too, and see if this can help you. Please note the disclaimers at my EFT site before you attempt tapping along, and make sure you have a working knowledge of EFT, or Tapping.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

Yesterday, after tapping on it, it went from a 12 out of 10 to a 6. Now, after tapping, it brought up new parts of the problem that I had not tapped on before, so it went up to a 9. So I just continue tapping.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

Finally, after tapping on parts of this issue for 2 years, I was able to cry about it. Before, it had been too raw, and so my subconscious mind had somehow numbed me to it. Now I had a little cry, and the number has gone down to a 7 out of 10. I continue tapping the same words, in the same way…

Now down to 2. I can think of what I could have done to prevent getting in that situation in the first place. And I am creating in my mind an alternative reality, where i could have escaped the X situation once it had started. I cannot change the past, but by changing the memory to a more empowered one, I can change how I feel, now that I am down to 2. It helps. Still, I go back o the original tapping, to make sure it goes to 0 and stays there.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

It went down to zero. Then I did what Gary Craig calls “testing”. That is, recreating the situation as much as you can, in order to ensure that it has completely gone.  New parts of the issue came up, it went back up to a 4, down to a 2, and is now hovering around 1-2. I have to go to attend to a client now, so i will continue this tapping tomorrow.

EFT For an event that has nothing to do directly with breathing – Why This Post On This COPD, Asthma, and Lung Conditions Blog?

It is important to release distress. This is not only what is recommended by many doctors and people in the medical field, but I have found out through experience that stress can mess my health. With my delicate left lung, when stress builds up, I can get very sick. When I release it as I go along, my left lung stays strong. EFT makes it much easier. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this personal healing blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health.

Like EFT? EFT Courses Online Live or EFT Sessions Online Live – or in Bromley BR1, SE London and Kent

With a wealth of knowledge, and regularly doing my self-EFT as well as helping clients, I love empowering people with EFT courses. Learn EFT online by Skype here to start with and get EFT Practitioner Certification online by Skype here. And if you are in London or Kent, come and see me! I teach EFT in Bromley, BR1, Greater London, very easy to get to from London and Kent. See my London-Kent EFT Foundation (Level 1 +) Course here or my London-Kent EFT Practitioner Certification here. And you can find my Bromley London Reiki courses here.

Or work with me direct one-on-one Let’s start with your goals and dreams FREE at https://www.eft-scripts.com/talk-to-me

EFT Tapping Short Blog Posts Disclaimer

You are advised to consult with your medical practitioner before embarking on any course of alternative, complementary, or beauty modality. Whilst EFT has produced great results for many clients, there is no guarantee you will 🙂 Our use of systems that are trademarked or have a registered trademark represents views not necessarily those of the trademark owners.

Christmas Disappointment

Christmas Disappointment

Like many people, Xmas can bring joy, or it can bring great sadness and discord. I forgot this morning to lie, lie and lie and pretend, pretend, and pretend some more, so I said a truth. Not a nice one, but one that I felt protective enough about the person involved, so I spoke up.

What followed was the usual barrage of accusations and anger. I should have known better. Tapping…

Setup:
“I want to know better next time and simply lie. Telling the truth did not change the situation at all for the person suffering, so a diplomatic lie would have achieved more in the long term. I ask that I learn to lie next time.”
Reminder:
“Better to lie.”

After a few rounds, I feel empowered. Unfortunately, telling some of the truth was so damaging to the possibility of helping the person that needed help. It will take years to undo. In the meantime, I should give up on trying. It is hard not to care about a vulnerable person that you very much care about. But caring will get that person nowhere. It is best to distance myself, for my own well-being.

I feel at peace. It will take a while to get real peace, if ever, but at least I have peace with a solution that can work. just avoid, and whenever that is not possible, lie. Peace. Caring too much was very destructive to my health. I have been coughing like crazy. Peace is calming to my body. I need to look after myself first. And if I cannot change a bad situation, I can learn to let it go and stop caring.

On the Sue Scale (you can download it from my new EFT How To For You), I am a 0. So I tap:

“I choose to lie, ignore, and trust that I am not God. I cannot solve this problem. I choose to lie and avoid,. I cannot make this person happy. But I can choose to be happy myself.”

I followed it by tapping “Happiness”.

Got to a plus 6. That is good enough for now. I want to be as peaceful as this man here, unshaken, unstirred, strong.

 

EFT For Disappointment At Christmas – Why This Post On This COPD, Asthma, and Lung Conditions Blog?

It is important to release any stress. This is not only what is recommended by many doctors and people in the medical field, but I have found out through experience that stress can mess my health. With my delicate left lung, when stress builds up, I can get very sick. When I release it as I go along, my left lung stays strong. EFT makes it much easier. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this personal healing blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health.

Like EFT? EFT Courses Online Live or EFT Sessions Online Live – or in Bromley BR1, SE London and Kent

With a wealth of knowledge, and regularly doing my self-EFT as well as helping clients, I love empowering people with EFT courses. Learn EFT online by Skype here to start with and get EFT Practitioner Certification online by Skype here. And if you are in London or Kent, come and see me! I teach EFT in Bromley, BR1, Greater London, very easy to get to from London and Kent. See my London-Kent EFT Foundation (Level 1 +) Course here or my London-Kent EFT Practitioner Certification here. And you can find my Bromley London Reiki courses here.

Or work with me direct one-on-one Let’s start with your goals and dreams FREE at https://www.eft-scripts.com/talk-to-me

EFT Tapping Short Blog Posts Disclaimer

You are advised to consult with your medical practitioner before embarking on any course of alternative, complementary, or beauty modality. Whilst EFT has produced great results for many clients, there is no guarantee you will 🙂 Our use of systems that are trademarked or have a registered trademark represents views not necessarily those of the trademark owners.

EFT Tapping For Relatives Anger At Christmas – With 9-Gamut Release

Relatives Anger At Christmas

I have moved heaven on Earth to make a relative’s wishes happen. And still, no appreciation, only anger. I keep trying, because i feel it is my duty to, and out of love, but I am devastated by the latest retort.

Tapping…

Setup:
“Even though I am devastated and all my efforts to make this relative’s wishes come true are ignored and unappreciated, I know that I am doing my best and continue to do my best. I am a good person. I deserve forgiveness and deserve some slack.”
Reminder:
“Devastated, unappreciated, ignored.”

After a few rounds, I feel well enough to function. I have evolved the upset. I can solve it later. Feeling much calmer now.

I added the 9-Gamut. I find it really helps speed things up for me, especially going around the circles saying the things that hurt me the most, until they lessen in intensity:

 

EFT For Relatives’ Anger At Christmas – Why This Post On This COPD, Asthma, and Lung Conditions Blog?

It is important to release any stress. This is not only what is recommended by many doctors and people in the medical field, but I have found out through experience that stress can mess my health. With my delicate left lung, when stress builds up, I can get very sick. When I release it as I go along, my left lung stays strong. EFT makes it much easier. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this personal healing blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health.

Like EFT? EFT Courses Online Live or EFT Sessions Online Live – or in Bromley BR1, SE London and Kent

With a wealth of knowledge, and regularly doing my self-EFT as well as helping clients, I love empowering people with EFT courses. Learn EFT online by Skype here to start with and get EFT Practitioner Certification online by Skype here. And if you are in London or Kent, come and see me! I teach EFT in Bromley, BR1, Greater London, very easy to get to from London and Kent. See my London-Kent EFT Foundation (Level 1 +) Course here or my London-Kent EFT Practitioner Certification here. And you can find my Bromley London Reiki courses here.

Or work with me direct one-on-one Let’s start with your goals and dreams FREE at https://www.eft-scripts.com/talk-to-me

EFT Tapping Short Blog Posts Disclaimer

You are advised to consult with your medical practitioner before embarking on any course of alternative, complementary, or beauty modality. Whilst EFT has produced great results for many clients, there is no guarantee you will 🙂 Our use of systems that are trademarked or have a registered trademark represents views not necessarily those of the trademark owners.