Abusive phonecall

A phonecall with a potential client turned into a sudden, unjustified torrent of verbal abuse in my direction. I know that some of my potential clients have somewhat extreme anger issues, and my training has been to deal with such events safely and calmly, but I was certainly not expecting this. I reacted quickly and calmly, ended the conversation politely, but was quite shaken afterwards.

Since then, I have had 2 EFT client sessions, and I’m calmer. But I saw a posting I did on Facebook and it’s so defensive. So I started tapping on my head and got a 3-4 for the phonecall. More like a 4.

Setup

“Even though I’m so upset, why treat me like this, I deeply love myself”

“Even though I cannot forgive this [abusive person], I love myself anyway”

“Even though s/he said x, I deeply love and accept myself”

Reminder

“X”

Now a 3 1/2.

Setup

“Even though I cannot forgive this [abusive person], I love myself anyway”

Reminder

“I cannot forgive this [abusive person]”

“S/he’s a hypocrite”

This daisy-chained to when I was in the UK, a South African called me for allergy investigation for her child, and I said what must have been a triggering word for her, totally innocently. I had started to say something like “When we approach with the attitude that milk must be eliminated, then we will keep up a feeling of fear and when we adopt the attitude of de-sensitizing, then our health improves and our world opens up.” The moment that woman heard “attitude”, she wwent ballistic, hurling abuse at me until, consumed with fury, she slammed the phone down.

Setup

“Attitude, I deeply accept myself”

Reminder

“F…ing stupid whacko BI..CH!”

OK, so I had an unfortunate choice of words…

“F…ed-up b**ch”

So I’ve forgiven today’s one, but I can’t forgive the whacki b..ch from a few years back

Setup

“Stupid b..ch, I can’t forgive her, not 100%, I deeply accept myself”

Reminder

“Can’t forgive f…ing stupid whacko BI..CH!”

Now I’ve got the giggles!

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When you have a chronic physical condition, anything that either emotionally or physically has a negative impact on you can make the condition worse. EFT is one way of throwing away the emotional rubbish collecting in your system. In the same way that we dispose of our household rubbish regularly for home cleanliness and hygiene, I use EFT to dispose of negative emotions for my optimal physical health.

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