I did my whole planned workout in the gym, worked answering phone calls and selling to potential clients at the same time, and Wow! I did it! I had all this happiness, and tapping around any negativity coming up during the workout. I was like a demented superwoman 🙂
But, I found out upon leaving the gym, a “client” who had booked for an embarrassing sexual problem turned out to have just used me for a cheap m*******tion. Now, I am known to work with the LGBT community and with matters of the bedroom department, and this “client” was very responsive and seemed genuine. So, naturally, I was more than happy to make an appointment, discuss fees, what to expect, etc, and of course later on, I found out he was just engaging me in conversation while he had the phone in one hand and a certain part of his anatomy in the other. And I had paid a not-inconsiderable sum on phone calls back and forth putting him at ease, explaining EFT, etc – idiot me, huh?!
So now I feel a 3 out of 10 intensity from this and I want to remove this intensity of feeling. I have a fully-booked clinic day tomorrow and the last thing I want is to go there lacking in confidence because of what this guy did. I want to let it go. So I tap:
Setup and Reminder on all the points:
“Even though this W****er used me and got me to pay for his w****ing, I just want to let it go. I have plenty of lovely clients, and they are worth a million more than this @ssh*le”
Down to intensity of 1.75 out of 10. Tapping now on all the points:
“Angry at myself for not figuring out this @ssh*le earlier”
And followed by:
“F***ing @ssh*le, go to hell”
Down to zero. I don’t feel like an idiot any more. I feel calm and confidently serene.
Now tapping on all the points:
“I look forward to the lovely genuine clients I will be seeing tomorrow”
I feel Good! 😀
When you have a chronic physical condition, anything that either emotionally or physically has a negative impact on you can make the condition worse. EFT is one way of throwing away the emotional rubbish collecting in your system. In the same way that we dispose of our household rubbish regularly for home cleanliness and hygiene, I use EFT to dispose of negative emotions for my optimal physical health. I call an emotion anything that your mind or body says to you, from fear to constricted airways. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health. — EFT with Me, Suzanne Zacharia, Practitioner — Disclaimer – You are advised to consult with your medical practitioner before embarking on any course of alternative, complementary, or beauty therapy. Our use of systems that are trademarked or have a registered trademark represents our views and not necessarily those of the trademark owners.
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