Grieving – My Medical Emigration Cut Short
Today, I became very sad whilst shopping for my EFT workshops. What should have been a happy occasion filled with joy at meeting and teaching new pupils EFT became a grieving for what I have recently lost. So I talked to myself in my head as I walked and shopped, surreptitiously rubbing my thumb and finger together to do EFT.
Now I tap-and-type. I tap on the Collarbone continuously as I type. It’s really helping:
I had left my native UK to go abroad for better medical care in South Africa. I got exactly that and more. My health seriously improved. And I learned a lot more about wellness and health. And I married my South African love. And we took our cat there. And I met some lovely people. No-one will ever replace the family and friends I have back here in England, but I so miss all the lovely people I met. And my spouse. And cat. Both of whom are waiting for me to bring them over, as we go through the visa applications here. We were all meant to return in 2018, but the South African immigration people had other ideas, and my family here had not seen me for two years. So I made a hard decision, which I do not regret…
Crying and tapping…
I left my Love in Africa.
Shopping for work decorative ornaments and chairs today, I saw so much that was imported from Africa. It tore at my heart. It’s not fair…
Tapping and crying…
I left my Love in Africa. And my beautiful office. Now, I found 2 chairs identical almost to the first office chairs I had bought in Africa about 7 years ago. I love them. They are there for my lovely EFT course attendees. And my Reiki course attendees. And the grief is so bitter-sweet. Finding these special chairs. Missing my Love. Bitter-sweet.
Tapping, crying getting less and less. ?Feeling better.
My daughter awaits me for dinner. I look forward to it.
Tears taste salty.
My heart is broken in a million little pieces. Waves of grief will keep coming over me. Better thought now…
Feeling calmer now.
EFT Tapping For Grieving – Why This Post On a COPD Blog?
Because there is enough evidence that unhappy emotions can exacerbate a physical condition or possibly even help to bring it on. I do everything I can to help my left lung, which has been behaving 100% for most of the past few weeks. This is no coincidence 🙂 When you have a chronic physical condition, anything that either emotionally or physically has a negative impact on you can make the condition worse. Tap-and-type (typing one-handed), tap-and-write, and tap-and-talk are excellent ways of releasing emotional pressure when you don’t have time to do more, or are overwhelmed. I hope this helps you or someone you care for. EFT is one way of throwing away the emotional rubbish collecting in your system. In the same way that we dispose of our household rubbish regularly for home cleanliness and hygiene, I use EFT to dispose of negative emotions for my optimal physical health. I call an emotion anything that your mind or body says to you, from fear to constricted airways. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this personal healing blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health.
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