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To Market my EFT Course, I Want to Walk the Talk Daily

Back in London, Marketing My EFT Course Reminds Me of How I Marketed it Abroad – Only with 100 Percent Authenticity

Whilst living abroad for some 8 years, I marketed my EFT courses by being my own authentic self. And now I need to get two more attendees to complete the forthcoming EFT Course in London-Kent, and I need to go back to being my authentic self.

However, this is something that I have hidden from the public for two years. This is whilst I struggled with the results of a series of events which led to me coming back to my  UK homeland homeless and almost penniless, having to start all over again, due to crazy changes in my spouse’s country’s visa rules. My time, money, and efforts were spent on clearing my name as an accused illegal immigrant in my spouse’s country (successfully completed), getting my spouse a visa to the UK (very long hours – up to 5 hours after each full day’s work, and very costly), and bringing my cat back home to England (very costly and stressful each step along the way). And I was technically homeless for 7 months, as this was not a planned return. I kept up hope and tapped and tapped, but in the end, my living conditions were just too much and that is when I could no longer put out regular videos on Youtube, because the subject-matter was too triggering for most people and not a good introduction to EFT.

The other day, my spouse reported to me yet again that I was displaying a particular sign of distress in my sleep. It is too personal to discuss, as it involves third parties, so let us call it X. I have decided to start walking the talk again and tapping on my own stuff in public, to show people how EFT works. This tapping is extra special, because you can use it yourself, as the words cover any situation. I am going to call the particular sign of distress “X”, in order to keep it private. If you have an exact event or reaction that you want to tap for, you can call it “X” too, and see if this can help you. Please note the disclaimers at my EFT site before you attempt tapping along, and make sure you have a working knowledge of EFT, or Tapping.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

Yesterday, after tapping on it, it went from a 12 out of 10 to a 6. Now, after tapping, it brought up new parts of the problem that I had not tapped on before, so it went up to a 9. So I just continue tapping.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

Finally, after tapping on parts of this issue for 2 years, I was able to cry about it. Before, it had been too raw, and so my subconscious mind had somehow numbed me to it. Now I had a little cry, and the number has gone down to a 7 out of 10. I continue tapping the same words, in the same way…

Now down to 2. I can think of what I could have done to prevent getting in that situation in the first place. And I am creating in my mind an alternative reality, where i could have escaped the X situation once it had started. I cannot change the past, but by changing the memory to a more empowered one, I can change how I feel, now that I am down to 2. It helps. Still, I go back o the original tapping, to make sure it goes to 0 and stays there.

Setup:
“Even though I have this X distress, I deeply love and accept myself.”
Reminder:
“This X Distress.”

It went down to zero. Then I did what Gary Craig calls “testing”. That is, recreating the situation as much as you can, in order to ensure that it has completely gone.  New parts of the issue came up, it went back up to a 4, down to a 2, and is now hovering around 1-2. I have to go to attend to a client now, so i will continue this tapping tomorrow.

EFT For an event that has nothing to do directly with breathing – Why This Post On This COPD, Asthma, and Lung Conditions Blog?

It is important to release distress. This is not only what is recommended by many doctors and people in the medical field, but I have found out through experience that stress can mess my health. With my delicate left lung, when stress builds up, I can get very sick. When I release it as I go along, my left lung stays strong. EFT makes it much easier. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this personal healing blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health.

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Apartheid Horror

Oh dear, yet again I lose a call to a torrent of abuse. There is a way to talk to sensitive clients without allowing them to abuse me, but it’s about getting that balance right. The first call this morning, as soon as I started my sales patter, I got a torrent of abuse. So I tapped, discussed it with my spouse, who advised me to smile as I talk, as I was not smiling and my tone of voice came over more harsh than friendly. Then I remembered a call, where I called a lady to offer her a very special offer, a huge discount of an eighth of the amount. She told me that she had just been on holiday with her husband and several children to a destination which is known to be very expensive to travel to. As I was telling her I wanted to make her a very attractive offer, if she could attend the course and fill and empty place for me, she freaked out completely. I said “Don’t you want to know what the offer is?” to which she retorted with a torrent of abuse. I tried to calm her, and she freaked out and put the phone down.

OK, that was first thing this morning. Then I had to stop at the above paragraph before doing a two-hour phone hypnosis and EFT session with a client Now as I read the above, I feel a zero. However, when I close my eyes and remember, it’s a 4. And what I see in my mind’s eye is the beautiful holiday location that this rich woman and her family went to, whilst she begrudges a worker like myself making any money, even at a huge discount.

Setup

“Beautiful [expensive holiday location], rich woman and family begrudging me any payment, I deeply love and accept myself”

Reminder

“Beautiful [expensive holiday location], rich woman and family begrudging me any payment”

I cannot connect to this memory anymore. It’s a zero, total fade-out. But now biggest in my mind is this morning’s call. It’s the thought that for many people here in this country, especially some white women, a person making enough money from an honest living has “attitude”. It’s like, how dare this person make money. The years and expense of study that I needed to do to qualify mean nothing to most white South Africans in Cape Town, whose idea of a complementary therapist is a person with a week’s training (if that) who peddles their services in flea markets. It’s like, I got this call from a white woman and my blood immediately ran cold. I know I have to deal with this. It’s shot up to an 8.

Setup:

“Even though I’m terrified and aghast at some white women in Cape Town, I deeply love and accept myself. Even though they think I have “attitude” to ask for payment, no wonder their black maid makes less than she can live on, dies young, and all the other disgusting injustices in the beautiful place with … people, I deeply love and accept myself. Even though I’m terrified of white women calling and treating me like dirt, I deeply love and accept myself. I forgive myself for not smiling this morning, I was too scared to smile and forgot to fake it or tap. I should have tapped, I should have faked a smile, I should have tried harder to let go of this terror of talking to certain white women, but I didn’t. Even though she said I had “attitude”, how dare she, I remember that she had her circumstances, her background, and I forgive her. Even though I feel really bad I didn’t handle it better, think faster, already know how to sell to Cape Town white women, I forgive myself”

Reminder:

“I forgive myself, even when I can’t. I will smile when I talk, I will “smile as you dial” next time, “smile as you dial” and that’s OK”

It’s now a 5 for not performing well, and a 2 for “certain white South African woman”

Setup:

“Even though I was more concerned with my fear of this hatred than I was concerned for the client, I deeply accept myself.”

It’s now a o for all, except a 2 for “certain white South African woman”

Setup:

“White South African woman, I deeply love, accept and respect myself. I am worthwhile.”

Reminder:

“WSAW….Apartheid….. Hitler… Gestapo… Horror.. Horror… [crying].. This horror, this abomination, man’s horror onto man.”

I can’t bring WSAW under a 1. Maybe because I’m afraid of further abuse

Setup:

“EVEN THOUGH I STILL HAVE THIS WHITE SOUTH AFRICAN WOMAN HORROR FEELING, I DEEPLY AND COMPLETELY LOVE AND ACCEPT MYSELF” [crying]

Reminder:

“WSAW feeling”

I get a 0 and giggles for WSAW. I feel 0 for this morning’s call. I think next time I get an aggressive approach, I’ll tap straight away and let them talk while I put the phone away from my ear. Or something like that.

When you have a chronic physical condition, anything that either emotionally or physically has a negative impact on you can make the condition worse. EFT is one way of throwing away the emotional rubbish collecting in your system. In the same way that we dispose of our household rubbish regularly for home cleanliness and hygiene, I use EFT to dispose of negative emotions for my optimal physical health.

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